Uhm felt up on a "date" what to do?

About a year ago, a neighbor invited me up to his place because he offered to cook dinner for me. Before we could sit down to eat, he took my hand and put it on his pants (yes, *there*) and I kind of got the impression he expected sex. I pulled my hand away and said I was offended and turned around and left.

It’s been a long time, I let it go and moved on, no more incidents. I thought about reporting something to the police, but I let it go so long. I think there’s a statue of limitations on this, the problem is, later I discovered he is on the maintenance staff here in my bldg, and often the go-to person to get things fixed by the manager (like currently I need the vanity on my mirror repaired). When I ask to have simple things done, like when the sink flooded a few weeks ago, I am often stymied by delays and requests that don’t always make sense (well I can’t do it today. but one hour later he’s sitting in the office watching TV doing nothing. Oh, I don’t have that right now, even when its a common item. and so on).

Do you think this is sexual harrassment? I don’t know if I’m over-reacting. I’m just a tenant. But this is kind of like a low class tenement in a really bad neighborhood. Maybe its just a result of the environment. One of the neighbors told me he smokes a lot of weed. I was kind of shocked. Also this guy is older (in his 50s), I don’t know if I should even say anything, there seems to be a lot going on.

But its very uncomfortable, getting things done in a timely manner. Other neighbors don’t like services here either, but they do seem to find him in particular as helpful with a good "bedside manner." so I don’t know what to think. because i’m most uncomfortable with it.

I would appreciate input.

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